Anti-Trans Legislation: “Parental Rights” or Political Control?
- Kerry Cavers
- 2 days ago
- 4 min read
How transness represents a breakdown of control.
Deep Dive #2 into political smokescreens used to justify harm.
Across Canada, there's an increase in laws and policies targeting trans and non-binary kids, especially in schools. Often passed under the banner of “parental rights” and “protecting kids,” but behind the slogans is a strategy that’s about politics, not protection.
What’s being said?
“Parents have the right to know what’s going on with their children.”
“Kids are too young to make decisions about gender.”
“We’re keeping schools safe and transparent.”
What’s actually happening?
Policies are being introduced or proposed to:
Force schools to out trans and non-binary students to their parents, even if it’s unsafe
Ban teachers from using students’ chosen names or pronouns without parental approval
Remove gender identity content from health and wellness curricula
Frame gender-affirming care and support as “ideological” or “abuse”
These laws don’t keep kids safe. They make schools dangerous, identities invisible, and survival harder.
Why can’t people just let other families make their own decisions?
Because for many people, especially in white Christian and conservative communities, transness represents a breakdown of control.
We live in a society where strict gender roles have long been used to maintain order, dominance, and tradition. When kids challenge those roles, it doesn’t just disrupt norms, it threatens power.
And if you’ve never had to question your gender, your safety, or your access to belonging, a child exploring gender can feel like a rejection of everything you were taught was “normal,” “moral,” or “natural.” So instead of saying: “That doesn’t align with my beliefs, but I’ll support others’ freedom,” they say:
“This shouldn’t be allowed anywhere.”
“It’s unsafe for all children.”
“It’s abuse.”
It’s not about concern. It’s about enforcing control, by law.
Who is pushing this and why?
Anti-trans legislation is a coordinated political strategy, not a grassroots concern. Politicians and far-right actors push it because:
It distracts from economic failures and public service cuts
It fires up a conservative voter base with emotional talking points
It lets them pose as “protectors” without actually helping anyone
It turns marginalized children into cultural scapegoats
They don’t need to fix healthcare or housing. They just need to say: “We’re protecting your children from trans ideology.”
It’s fear-based politics. And it works.
Why do some parents fall for it?
Because they’ve been told:
That “wokeness” is dangerous
That kids are being “brainwashed”
That schools are hiding things from them
That questioning gender is a threat not an exploration
They’re not all full of hate, but they are full of fear. Fear stoked by media, religious institutions, and politicians who profit from panic.
Who benefits?
Politicians who want headlines, not solutions
Conservative parties trying to rally their base
Anti-trans hate groups with global funding
School boards and institutions too scared to stand up for kids
Extremist groups using "parental rights" to expand control
What’s the danger if it succeeds?
Trans kids are outed and kicked out of homes
Queer kids stop going to school or drop out
Suicide rates among 2SLGBTQIA+ youth climb even higher
Trust between students and educators is destroyed
Schools become sites of surveillance, not safety
And every time this succeeds, the next target gets bigger: → Bans on drag storytime → Limits on queer teachers → Attacks on gender-diverse adults → ???
Who gets hurt?
Trans and non-binary kids, first and worst.
All 2SLGBTQIA+ students, whose existence becomes a debate.
All children, who learn that safety is conditional and truth is punishable.
Educators, who are gagged and criminalized for care.
Parents of queer and trans kids, who lose public allies and school support.
And yes, this harms the kids of the parents demanding these bans, too. Because they grow up:
Terrified of being different
Afraid to question, explore, or express
Vulnerable to shame and repression
Unprepared for the diverse world they live in
More likely to carry harm into their own relationships and parenting
If those children ever realize they are trans, queer, or questioning, the damage has already been done.
Where in Canada is this happening now?
Saskatchewan & New Brunswick have passed policies forcing teachers to get parental permission to use a student’s chosen name or pronouns—regardless of the student’s safety.
Alberta’s Premier Danielle Smith announced sweeping plans to restrict gender-affirming care, remove gender identity content from classrooms, and require parental opt-in to all identity-based learning.
Ontario and Manitoba conservative politicians have echoed similar sentiments and policy threats.
The takeaway?
“Parental rights” should never come at the expense of a child’s right to safety, dignity, and selfhood. You can’t protect kids by erasing who they are. You can’t love them by refusing to see them. And you can’t claim neutrality while siding with harm.
If your freedom requires another child’s silence, it was never about freedom at all.
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